Not Taking No For An Answer; Danelynn Castros’ Story; By Cosette Brockbank
- cosette93
- Jun 26
- 3 min read
Updated: Aug 29
The mats at Manti High School held more than just the echoes of clashing athletes, they carry some of the most treasured memories of senior Danelynn Castro. After four years of wrestling, Danelynn’s journey was far from the path she first envisioned for herself when she entered high school. She had said “no” to wrestling the first few times the idea was brought up as a freshman, unsure of the sport’s place in her life.
After some convincing.. Danelynn had no idea she agreed to change her high school experience dramatically. Once starting, wrestling had a way of gently, but firmly, pulling her in.
As her final season neared its end, Danelynn found herself at a crossroads, she had reached the pinnacle, taking first place in the divisions, an accomplishment that had once felt unimaginable. Yet there was an undercurrent of bittersweet emotion.
This was her last season, the girls’ wrestling team had grown so much since she first stepped onto the mat, and now, it was teeming with new faces. Freshmen eager to carve their own path, following in her footsteps. It excited her to see their potential, but it saddened her to think of leaving them behind, remembering that she too, was once where they were.
Despite the weight of her own accomplishments, Danelynn wasn’t focused on her own glory. Her energy was devoted to lifting others up. The new girls were the future, and she wanted to make sure they felt supported and confident in their abilities,
“I try my best to teach them,” she explained.
“I make sure I’m not too hard on them, and that they get the training they need.
Even if they don’t always agree with the coaches, I help them see that there’s more than one way to do things. It’s okay to be different, as long as you’re trying your best.”
Her desire to teach, to pass on what she had learned, wasn’t just about technique or strategy, it was about gratitude. Danelynn had never taken her opportunities for granted. Wrestling had been a life raft during moments when things could have easily gone astray.
“I’m grateful just to be able to wrestle,” she said, her voice steady with the weight of that realization.
“There are girls out there who want to wrestle but can’t. That’s what motivates me, the fact that I have the chance, that there are people who support our team. It makes me want to do even better, to make the most of it.”
Even when it seemed like Manti High School might lose its wrestling program altogether, Danelynn refused to let go of the sport. She had thought ahead, determined that if she couldn’t wrestle here, she’d find somewhere else.
“I would’ve found another coach, another team, anything to keep wrestling,” she shared with relief. “Without wrestling, I don’t even know what I’d be doing... Probably getting into trouble, honestly.”
Danelynn’s dedication wasn’t about avoiding trouble, it was about building something stronger, more enduring. Wrestling had shaped her into someone who could face challenges head-on and lead with purpose.
It had given her confidence, skills, and the opportunity to inspire others.
“Wrestling has boosted my confidence so much,” she said. “It helps with everything...school, friendships, and even work. I got a job because people saw my determination in wrestling”.
As she spoke to the younger girls, her message was clear. “Sometimes it’s hard,” she said, her voice full of empathy for the struggles they may face. “There will be times when you don’t want to keep going, when you just want to run away, but trust me, this sport pays off. It opens doors and it builds you up in ways you can’t even see yet. Stick with it. Keep trying. You won’t regret it.”
Danelynn was a leader, not because she demanded it, but because she lived it.
Her leadership wasn’t centered around being in charge; it was about setting an example through her actions, through her belief in the sport and in the potential of every wrestler who followed her. Gratitude for the opportunities she had been given had become the foundation of her leadership. She had learned to embrace every victory, every setback, and to use them not just to build herself, but to build a team, a legacy of strength and unity for those who would come after her.
When she stood on the mat for the final time in her high school career, Danelynn knew one thing for certain: the lessons learned through these years would carry her far beyond graduation. The mats had taught her that success was about lifting others, leading with humility, and above all, being grateful for the opportunity to wrestle.
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