What If You're Not The Star?
- Cosette Abeyta

- Sep 5, 2025
- 2 min read

Every team has a star, the name on the back of the jersey that gets called the most, the player who scores the most, the one fans cheer for the loudest.
Most athletes aren’t that person, most are the ones doing the unseen work, the ones pushing in practice, lifting in silence, learning the play, backing up the starter, and waiting for their chance.
So what if that’s you? What if you’re not the one in the spotlight? What if your name isn’t in the paper or on the highlight reel?
Here’s the truth, your value is not measured in stats, your worth is not defined by starting positions. Your impact does not require a crowd.
You are still building grit. Still shaping your character. Still becoming someone stronger every day you show up and do the work no one claps for.
Here’s what most people don’t see:
They don’t see the guy who makes the star better in practice or the girl who learns every role and steps in without complaint. They don’t see the one who brings the energy when the team is flat, they don’t see the leaders who don’t wear a captain’s band. The teammates who stay late, check up on others, and make the team culture feel like a family. Their effort may not be obvious on the field/court, but it will always be manifested in the teams performance, not just their own.
You may not be the star, but your effort matters, your presence matters, your attitude matters.
You are showing future athletes what commitment looks like, reminding coaches why heart still matters more than hype, You are becoming the kind of person the world needs... consistent, selfless, humble, and tough
One day you’ll look back and maybe you’ll wish you had more minutes or more attention, but you won’t regret the way you worked or the way you carried yourself, or the way you stayed ready.
Being a role player isn’t a lesser role it’s just a different kind of leadership, a quieter kind, but no less important
So what if you're not the star You’re still the reason the team works and that will always matter





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