Thrown In, All In: Kelli Christiansen’s Story; By Cosette Brockbank
- cosette93
- Aug 13
- 3 min read
On a spring day, with a helmet too big for her head and a bat that felt awkward in her small hands, Kelli Christiansen stepped into the batter’s box for the first time. She hadn’t asked to be there, her dad, a lifelong baseball player turned slow-pitch weekend warrior, had signed her up without much discussion, and just like that, she was in the game.
The swing was clumsy, the stance uneven, but something about the field, the sounds, and the energy stuck with her.
By her second season, the jitters gave way to curiosity. Kelli started hitting, she started understanding, and that unfamiliar bat? It began to feel like it belonged in her hands.
What began as a push from her dad became something she chose, over and over again. Year after year.
Living on the Field, Missing Life Off of It
Now a junior in high school, Kelli has spent nearly a decade on the diamond. While her classmates went to concerts or stayed out late on weekends, she packed cleats and gear into the back of a car headed toward yet another tournament.
There were days when the routine felt like a too much: practice, homework, repeat. Nights when the silence in her room echoed louder because her friends were all somewhere else, a few times, the thought snuck in: What if I just quit?
Anytime that moment came, something pulled her back, a spark, a memory, or a glimpse of how far she’d come.
She never stayed in that “I want to quit” space for long... even when it’s exhausting, she knows she’s doing something she loves, something that’s shaping her in ways bigger than the scoreboard.
More Than Muscle Memory
What challenges her most isn't the swing or the sprint, it’s what happens that no one can see. For Kelli, the biggest opponent has always been the pressure to be perfect. She used to believe that mistakes erased her worth as an athlete. One bad game could eat at her for days. Eventually, the weight of that perfectionism pushed her to a crossroads, she could keep trying to meet an impossible standard, or she could learn a new way to compete.
That’s when she found mindset training.
In quiet sessions built for athletes like her, she started peeling back the layers of that internal pressure. She learned how to respond when things went wrong, how to reset, and how to be kind to herself, without lowering the bar.
It didn’t erase the need to be great, but it rewired how she defined greatness.
Leadership by Experience
Today, when her team falls behind, Kelli doesn’t panic, she gathers them in, looks around the huddle and sees herself in each frustrated face.
She speaks up, not with clichés, but with calm. She’s been there, tight-chested after a mistake, stuck in her own head. She knows how heavy that can feel. That’s why her words carry weight.
She doesn’t ask for perfection, she asks for effort, for belief in the next play.
Playing Forward
Softball, for Kelli, isn’t just about now, it’s always been about what’s next.
Most people see her dedication and assume softball is her endgame, what they don’t see is the bigger plan. Behind the reps and the wins and the dugout dust, there’s a future she’s chasing: a career in mechanical engineering. The scholarships, the conversations with college coaches, the focus is all part of building that next chapter. Still, even as she looks ahead, she remains anchored in the present. Every practice is an opportunity, every game is a lesson. There is no “good enough.” There is just better, always better.
Progress Over Perfection
When younger players come to her for advice, she doesn’t hand them a highlight reel. She gives them the truth, you'll mess up, you’ll have days where nothing clicks, but you are not a failure, you’re human. The thing that matters most is that you keep showing up. Kelli Christiansen shows up, through long weekends, through mental battles, and through those quiet decisions to keep choosing the game, even when it’s hard.
This isn’t a story about a perfect player.
It’s the story of one who grows.
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